“Your Honor” and Other Courtroom Etiquette
Written by: Mikaila Matt
Y is for "Your Honor."
"Your Honor" is a way of formally addressing a judge during a court proceeding.
When you show up for your hearing you may hear phrases like “Your Honor,” “May it please the court,” “May I approach,” among others from your attorney. Have you ever wondered why your attorney says these weird and formal phrases during your court hearing? These phrases are used to recognize the importance of the court and show respect to the judge. They are some of the weird terms used in courtrooms.
Ways you can show respect for the courtroom, Court, and Judge:
- Dress professionally in pants or slacks, collared shirts, and/or a sweater. Avoid clothing that has inappropriate slogans or is revealing, and do not wear shorts or jeans.
- Pay attention to each courthouse’s instruction on what is allowed through security because each court has its own guidelines. Bring the bare minimum with you and leave any potentially dangerous items at home like manicure sets, tweezers, glass containers, utility tools like a Leatherman, knives, metal forks and spoons, pepper spray and mace, concealed weapons even if you have a permit, and essential oils. Be sure to ask your attorney before your hearing if there is anything you should be aware of prior to your hearing.
- Be early. You want to give yourself enough time to park and go through security.
- Turn off your cellphone or leave it in your car. Some courts do not allow cellphones.
- Be sure to stand when you speak to the judge.
- When speaking in court, speak slowly, clearly, and loud enough for the court reporter to write down everything you are saying.
- Don’t interrupt an attorney or the judge.
- Be mindful of the microphone.
- Use a legal pad to ask your attorney questions.
- Pay attention to your body language and distracting behavior. The judge and others in the courtroom are able to see you when you roll your eyes, shake your head, huff, sigh, or fidget.
- Do not chew gum or bring food with you.
- Do not bring your children with you (unless you are told to by your attorney or the court).
If you are worried about what to expect in an upcoming hearing, we can help. Our attorneys are familiar with the expectations in South Carolina Family Court. Schedule a consultation to talk with us about your situation.